Thursday, February 28, 2013

Update on Bachelor

I've been getting a lot of questions about what has happened since that crazy night so here is an update...

I have not heard from him again - thankfully - and have not seen his ugly gold SUV near or on my street (guess I should have listened to my sister when she said never trust a man with a gold car!). I have since quit match, but have also reported him to the Match.com people. Not sure what they do with that info but I gave them the link to my blog and basically asked them if they think someone like that should be on their site. Boom.

I have not seen him around town, but about a week ago a friend of mine was at the same fundraiser as he was. She said he was with a girl and I felt bad for her (even though she was a bit 'trashy'). No woman should ever go through what had to endure. About 2 hours later my friend texts me to tell me that his date ditched out and he was circling the place trying to find her. Haha YES! Totally what he deserves - to be shit on over and over again!

No new dates here though either...kind of in a draught...stay warm!

Monday, February 25, 2013

Goals

Having goals is a practice we all take part in throughout our entire lives. Goals to graduate school, get a job, find that special someone, lose weight and continue to grow our families. Goals are there to keep us motivated and on "the right track," whatever that may be...

I have of course taken part of creating and reaching most of my goals in life. They are ever changing and I still have some to overcome. I graduated from college, got a good job in a city I love, bought a home, graduated with a masters degree and have friends whom I trust with my life. We all have things we are proud of, but are there some goals you're still working towards? Something you have not obtained yet?

As you know from my previous entries, I have been working at my goal of finding the man meant for me. I have such wonderful people around me that fulfill my life, but I want a partner, I want to find my person. It's been a LONG and TOUGH road and although I have been beaten down and pushed around, I will get back up and try again and again.

We all have goals and although the end seems far far away and it doesn't look good, please have confidence in yourself and the power you have to do whatever you want with your life. I will just keep trucking on....

When you reach your goal(s) what will you do?