Wednesday, July 27, 2016

Lost and found

For so long I was single and I never knew what it was like to have that person that would always be there for you and with you no matter what. 

When people would say to me that I would finally find him and I would know what it feels like it just felt like a cliché and I hated it when they said that. No single girl wants to hear "it will happen for you when you're least expecting it." Please note that for future young friends or family. 

I was that girl, for so long and at my age I'm old enough to know what I want and what I don't want in a man. 

Well guess what, I am going to be that cliché girl and tell you that I have finally found the person that I perfectly fit with. He is everything that I have ever asked for, and more. He and I are so much alike and love such similar things together that there is no one else on this earth that could be better suited for me. I can't imagine my life without him and we have only been together for a little over a year. 

We met online and I know that is a place where people go to 'expect' to meet someone but it is a place where I never expected to meet anyone. I hate online dating and I never wanted to do it, although what was the point of not being on it when I don't go out to the bars anymore? I needed to put myself out there if I wanted to meet someone and it finally happened. 

I always compared online dating to reading a book and then going to see the Movie. You read the book and love it, and then you go to see the movie and you are very disappointed. That is what I feel like online dating is like. You get this image in your head of what that person is like and then you go to meet them and they are nothing like it. It is in the rare occurrence you meet someone from the online site and they are exactly who they say they are. That's what I got with Ryan andninam so lucky for that - I've been through plenty of 'frogs' or as some ladies say: liars and frauds. 

I have never been so happy and so excited for what my life has become, and what is waiting for me these next few years. I've FINALLY found my partner in life and I can't wait to spend every minute with him! 

We are moving in together in 2 weeks and although it might not be where we want to be its together and we will be happy. Life is good!